Why do people judge your situation without being in your shoes?

dont you hate people that pass judgement against you when not living your life or going through your life situations? I mean people who just look at you and make decisions right then and there? It could have to do with race, weight, appearance, religion, anything.

Why do people judge your situation without being in your shoes?
IGNORANT AS HELL!!! me and my friend was just speakin on THIS about 2hr ago!
Reply:I know what you are saying. I get that all the time too. Well we all do though right?
Reply:eventhough we all do it, some people should know better after a while. I agree with you. Do you have a girlfriend by the way? lol.
Reply:I agree with you. And I don%26#039;t want to be mean, but I bet you%26#039;ve done the same thing once or twice.





It%26#039;s so incredibly natural that some people don%26#039;t even realize it when they are judging another person. I try not to but I fall into the same trap most people do.
Reply:It is very very unfair..but we are all guilty..I mean when you see a crazy looking bum trying to get a ride on the side of the road..do we stop for him/her? NO! We judge them by their appearance and think they may do us harm...
Reply:people are strange that way
Reply:Absolutely. It ticks me off. But that%26#039;s people for you.
Reply:b/c they are arrogant a s s holes!
Reply:Some ppl just think that they%26#039;re right all the time and some ppl are just too narrow minded.
Reply:...yep-%26quot;human nature%26quot; - not gonna change...N you heard the stories about that right?
Reply:Simple most people are judgmental because of their own ignorance, but one day you will meet someone who knows what you%26#039;re going through, so hold on to that person with all of your might.
Reply:OMG hell yeah I ukin hate that sheet!!!!
Reply:Sometimes, when they are really clueless, intolerant and/or cruel - but mostly not. Especially, if I understand why they think how they do - and especially if I realize they mean well. Or are at least trying to understand. None of us is perfect. And most of us make at least some unreasonable judgments - I%26#039;ll bet you do too.
Reply:Because for many. It%26#039;s easier to look at others than to look at themselves.
Reply:i hate it when it happens
Reply:It%26#039;s very true but it%26#039;s the negative to thinking people have to make day to day decisions about things and they become impartial usually to most of this and they adapt this technique of course to their fellow man who they%26#039;ve to interact people have animal instincts whether they want to admit it or not there is a human food chain too.
Reply:I find it hard to deal with those who judge others as they only know what they have traveled in life and can%26#039;t possible know what it was or is like for another person. Our backgrounds may be very similar but our own personalities are so unique. We all act and react to circumstances differently.





This reminds me of %26quot;The Gestalt Prayer%26quot;





I do my thing, and you do your thing.


I am not in this world to live up to your expectations.


And you are not in this world to live up to mine.


You are you and I am I,


And if by chance we find each other, it%26#039;s beautiful.


If not, it can%26#039;t be helped.
Reply:brotha, thats the way of the world, and we have to just get used to it. I see what you sayin and I AGREE but what can you do?
Reply:Yes, I agree. I have to admit that I used to be a bit like that in the past, but life has taught me a lot about not passing judgement...I%26#039;ve gone through situations that I never expected to go through and made decisions I never thought I%26#039;d make and it has taught me a lot.
Reply:yea, i feel people do it to me all the time. i%26#039;ve realized that%26#039;s how humans are though, and if they knew me they would change their opinions of me.
Reply:Seriously. They think that they have some God given right to judge /generalize people at any given moment.


In reality, they are no better than who they judge; we%26#039;re all equal whether we like it or not. And ANYONE who thinks they%26#039;re even a tiny bit better than someone else is seriously gonna get their as.s kicked by life%26#039;s experiences.
Reply:becuz people are stupid!. sorry i dont let ppl get to me. i dont ever worry about my surroundings becuz its not like they are gonna see me again!
Reply:because people honestly believe that their opinions matter, and they want everyone to know what they think.. its rather sad really....



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