Cancelled on 3 days before... overreacting or actually rude?

i was planning to go to the Spring Racing Carnival with my friend and her dad to Stakes Day, which is in two days. I had bought everything - a dress, shoes, bag and fascinator, spending about $700, and booked a hair and nail appointment. yesterday, my friend comes up to me and basically tells me that i%26#039;m not going to the races with her anymore.... but she%26#039;s still going. she told me some story about how her dad couldn%26#039;t buy tickets but it actually didn%26#039;t make sense. another friend secretly told me that her father decided that he didn%26#039;t want the responsibility. i am REALLY angry about this. i can only return my dress and fascinator, leaving me with shoes and a $300 bag. i was really excited about this event and now i%26#039;ve been cancelled on a mere three days before and i cant find anyone else to go with.


do i have a right to be this angry or am i just over reacting???

Cancelled on 3 days before... overreacting or actually rude?
That was very inconsiderate, write her off.





And consider the $$ lost as a lesson learned.





Be very picky about who you let into your life.





It is better to have a few very good friends than a lot of toxic friends.





I would send her family a bill for it, you actually could take them to small claims and you might win.
Reply:yes you have a right to be upset because you made plans and he should have told her this before you got set and brought all of these things.
Reply:well to me u are both over reacting and ur fren was rather insensitive.





however you carn help it if she really cun bring you, its her every right to be unable to bring u along, plus at least she didnt dump it wif the info 5mins b4 right?





however if she has invited you along it issint very nice to cancel it liek this, but sometimes things carn be helped.





maybe next time you shouldnt spend so much on a simple outing?
Reply:You have a right to be angry but the problem will remain Never depend heavily on anyone not even your best friend they take you for granted.Don%26#039;t you have another friend or any family member to go or can%26#039;t you go alone?If not then your dress and bag have to wait for another occasion.Sorry for that.Anyways all the best
Reply:$300 on a bag? $700 for an outfit to go to the races? You%26#039;ve got money to burn: will you marry me? Oh,only if you are willing to support me!
Reply:Because you were so prepared then I understand why you are so upset.. And the spring racing carnival is something most of us girls look forward to. Im still not quite sure why your friend has cancelled on you but are you sure you cant find anyone else to go with? Nevertheless, I would also be abit upset as well.. only because it is the one time of year to go all out and dress up like your famous. I would be upset aswell darl so I think its fair enough.



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