Ok does this make me a bad person??

Okay well i judge a lot, not really races but morea long the lined of looks! i judge myself too though! but like this guy likes me nad he is realy sweet, he has a nice car but his clothes just arent my style i mean he doesnt own enough abecrombie hollister type stuff! clothes is everything to me i judge people on there clothes and there weight! i jusdge myself on my weight as well im reaching for a goal of 100 (( i am 15 feamle 5'6)) and until im comfortable in my shoes i cant get close w anyother guys! i havent had a bf in 2 years because of this ! i have teakin pills to help w my weight and binged and purged!! does all of this make me a bad person! sorry i got a little of topic! and this isnt for attention i promise!

Ok does this make me a bad person??
Yes, it makes you look like a shallow person and to me I have never met a good shallow person. You probably could have had a great boyfriend or boyfriends in those two years, but since you judged guys on their clothes you never met any of those great guys. Also I think you need to stop with the weight-loss because I think your normal weight would be like 20 more pounds or something like that. See I am 5'0'' and my normal body weight would be 100, so if you are six inches taller then yeah you have a weight problem.
Reply:I judge people on their grammar and yours stinks. See, it's not nice of me to judge you for your grammar, so stop judging him for his clothes. That's very shallow.
Reply:You are too caught up in appearances, both your own and others. Have you seen a counselor? Purging is very dangerous to your health. Look at it this way, these bodies we're in are just sacks of flesh that are going to decay. We're all going to get old and die - the body is just a temporary vehicle. Do you love your mother or grandmother even though she's older and maybe wears old clothes? Well, that's real love - loving someone (including yourself) for who they are, not what they look like. Try to see a counselor and get some advice to help you move on. Good luck.
Reply:First of all, if you are 5'6" and going for 100 lb. weight goal you are anorexic or borderline anorexic, especially if you have binged and purged. If you weigh 100 lbs those clothes you like so much aren't going to fit you right. They are going to hang off you. You won't have any breasts, hips or butt to fill out those clothes. As far as the guy's clothes- maybe abercrombie isn't his style- it's yours. You could miss out on a really great guy because he doesn't wear the same clothing line that you do. You need to quit being so judgmental and look at the person, not the outfit. and get yourself some help for your eating disorder. You do not have a healthy self image.
Reply:no it doesn't make you a bad person.


just give the guy a chance.


my bf doesn't wear that stuff,


and shopping is my fave hobbie.


i just love him for him,


not his clothes.


please answer my question:


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:you aren't a bad person but you are shallow and could have an eating disorder, and until you take care of yourself you won't have a relationship work out.
Reply:get help with the eating thing...for the judging try not to concentrate on wat clothes he is wearing try replacing the bad with the good like say for me i dont like short guys, so my boyfriend is short at the moment and i just concentrate on his face cause he is really cute, just replace this guys clothes with him being nice....or with something else his hair, highth, personality, ect. you can replace anything and eventually u dont even remember what his default was



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