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Ever since i was a kid/teeneger/adult i have always been rebelious.


My family are muslim, i am not.


My family do not allow me to date out side race, i always date outside my race.


My family want me to get married in a few years when im about 23ish i DO NOT believe in marriage.


I want to donate ALL my organs, my family and their religion forbids it.


I want to adopt babies from poor countires, family says NO!


I am not allowed to move out till i get married, i plan on moving out soon.


There are many more but my question is WHY WHY WHY does it have to be like this? I am a very opinionated and head strong woman, my family are VERY cultural. What will become of me? Are there any people in my shoes? or with good advice? Thanks...

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Your probably rebellious since your family has so many restictions you got tired of them and decided to have your own opinnion on life. My parents have a lot of restiction just like your family does and I tend to kind of rebel because of that. Independance is a great thing in my point of view, it could really get you to places since you don't rely on other people to do things for you. And question for you: You want to donate ALL of your organs? You seem like a very great person indeed. And I agree with adopting babies from poor countries, moving out before getting married and dating people that are not my "race" and my parents disagree with all of that too.
Reply:U GO GIRL! dont worry, if u let people control u thats pathetic. I'm lucky cuz my family doesnt care wat i believe in, if i want to donate organs and the other stuff u said. i am inspired by u, seriously. well i mean, how many women are as independent as u? sorry, ill get to the advice part now.Just do what u want. Its UR life not ur familys. ur in america(well idk for sure but if ur not move their), u are free to do wat u want. u just happen to be a person like me but in a family thats very cultural. just keep doin wat u believe is rite, keep ur mind wide open, dont be narrowminded like ur family. u havnt been listening to ur family this long, y start? it will work out, you just hav to be urself and ull find ur place
Reply:HI There,


I understand your problem and can also feel it.


We need to talk in great length on this subject.


add me as anandsach@yahoo.com and we'll chat on this subject. I liked your viewpoints.


Best Regards,


Anand



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